Several months ago, a couple girlfriends and I were out for lunch and museum visiting. Out of no where, my dear friend announced, "So, I might have breast cancer..." She was so straightforward and matter of fact about it, which is something I really love about her. Before bombarding her with questions, she explained the whats, whens and ifs. She already had a plan without knowing yet if it was cancer. In the following weeks we found out it was cancer. I hate the word...so many emotions and memories of Mark's fight. I knew my friend would fight it...quiet and gracefully. She decided to go full attack and remove both of her breasts, a difficult decision I'm sure. She wanted to make sure cancer would not be in her future. Surgery came and went...hopeful news that it appeared not to have spread. Reconstructive surgery brought on difficulties including pain and an infection that resulted in a short hospital stay. Visiting my friend at home was a joy...we brought goodies galore a mix of savory, sweet and salty. We feasted on delicious treats. She had cut her hair...she decided if she
was going to lose it, which was anticipated, it would be short hair,
not long hair. The pixie cut was so cute on her...I wish I could pull of
the style myself! Her medical team decided on 4 chemo rounds, not unheard of for patients who are considered "not" having cancer. It's a form of insurance. Her first round was surprising easy...a little tiredness, but overall, very few side effects. I was happy for her...remembering all the nasty side effects my loved ones had experienced. We met for lunch and had a good long chat about what was going on in our present and what we hoped for our futures. It was good, quality time spent with a special friend. Today, I messaged her to find out how things were going. She had her second round Monday and was tired and weak. Also, she took the next step and buzzed her hair off...
She even let her brother give her a faux-hawk type cut before it all went. Of course, it was captured in a photo, which she shared with me for a laugh. It was so great to see that beautiful smile on her face. I knew she was good, as long as she smiled. She said, "Gotta have a sense of humor about this!" I love my friend, I don't think I say it enough to any of my dear, sweet friends. She is a Rock Star and Superhero rolled into one. She is going to kick cancer's ass and rock some short hair styles like a Diva. And to all my friends, I love you...I really do! :)
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